My stars, It's only 2 weeks into School and I am learning so many valuable lessons. My time at Duquesne may be expensive but every second seems to make me stronger so, it's worth paying off until I'm too old to care I suppose.
Something I think you wonderful people can relate to "Often, peoples craziness and aggressive behavior really isnt about you! It's not about what you did... what you said, it's about them. If you come to the conclusion you can't fix the individuals feelings towards you, and it's affecting your work, physical self, and or happiness. you have to decide: Am I going to Play ball and stick around and learn something from this person? Don't be afraid to ask yourself questions! " What will I gain? What will I lose? Or is it time to walk away and pick up another game?" I just learned how to handle this kind of situation, and let me tell you, letting go of what you can't control truly makes you feel a sense of freedom. Sure there are consequences! And those need to be weighed.
However folks, especially you singer types) if something or someone is making you feel so uncomfortable you can't sleep at night or, is physically and mentally harming you, seriously consider letting it go. Letting go of something takes weight off, and leaves the opportunity for two things : 1. If you are a person of faith, the Lords word is a lot more audible. and 2. Even if you're not it leaves a space for the potential for something or someone or something extraordinary to take the space of what was weighing you down. So that's the lesson I offer you for the first two weeks of school. Boston is next week! I know I'll prepare a lot more efficiently and sing more freely because of this difficult multi faceted lesson. Just something to stick in your pockets Kid's! Lot's of love, Jen
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